What is personal development? Why are we so focused on being "better", pushing ourselves to "grow"? What if all we have to do is show up everyday and the rest takes care of itself? What could that mean for you to let go of the how?
Yes, it is our job to plant the seed, to pull the weeds that threaten to choke its growth, to nurture, fertilize, and water it.
But we are not the sun.
We can not force the seed to grow.
All we can do is all we can do.
As long as we do that, the rest is the sun.